In building and keeping relationships with the underlying need honesty and openness. According to the romance expert said that it is the foundation that makes it eternal and everlasting love. From the only harbored suspicions, better be open to each other.
According to Christie Hartman, PhD, an expert in romance. He said that often times find lovers often tells his ex each other, just to make he feel cared for and pairing jealous. The way it is the wrong way and it will make your partner gets jealous and become faded love to you.
Indeed, sometimes the attitude boyfriend while listening to stories of former partner, not jealous, indicating that attitude. But behind it all your girlfriends will feel not considered.
Examples like this, if your ex taller, smarter, stronger, or even richer, do not ever bring up in front of your girlfriend. because it will make your girlfriend feel inferior or feel unimportant in front of you.
Things like that's one example that is often done by lovers today, and can be proved almost 75% of their relationship did not last long. Quite a lot better advised to speak ill of the former in front of your partner. Because it can make your partner are trying to be the best as your partner.